Elevate the Senses
Returning from a month in Italy, most friends asked, "Was it great?"
Expecting a yes answer they quickly moved on to the next topic. Others
were more curious, wanting to learn more about the trip. When they
asked "What was the best thing you saw or did in Italy?"
it would have been easy to say Florence, or Sorrento, or Tuscany.
Instead I had to stop and reflect on not just the journey, but the
experiences that wove themselves into my being and which now present as
the best things about Italy.
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Gino the Wine Knower
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It began with Gino who was known in Tuscany as a "wine-maker" but who called himself a "wine-knower."Reverently touching the vines he said "God and nature make the wine. Only by observing nature, the sky, the earth, the wind and the water do you know the wine." He continued, "Wine is not liquid. Rather wine is the heat of the sun, and the womb of the earth which produces the wine in this sacred valley where grapes were first discovered 2,600 years ago."
Gino felt the drinking of wine should be a slow and holy journey. And indeed, his wine stories were a metaphor on living a conscious life. He asked, "Why do you race to the end of the
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Four Generations of Gelato Makers
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Gino was the first of many Italians we met who said the same thing, delivered a similar message, and made you realize the Italians really do live like this. Theirs is a modern country, yet their lives are tied to the old ways - the elements, to the cycles of the moon and sun for planting, and the tides that come in and out. They do this as a matter of course, and without fanfare. They do not rush about. They take each day, each hour, each moment for what it presents. Every day they go to market for fresh produce or meats. The are restored in a three hour rest mid-day when stores close and dinner is served. They work hard but
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Family Sunday Dinners
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The hearts of the Italian people are tied to their relationships with family and friends. We learned Sunday was family day across Italy. Nothing interrupts Sunday meal gatherings that span several generations. Yet, with warm hearts they invited us into their family celebrations. Seated at an open air restaurant by the Bay of Naples, we shared food and drink with them. We were strangers, yet they offered us appetizers and tastes of food off their plates, along with glasses of Limoncello. With my broken Italian and their broken English we laughed and talked and felt part of an extended family though we were far away from our own.
What was the best thing about Italy? The people! In Tuscany, we remember a "wine-knower" who was really a philosopher. In Sorrento we remember afternoons spent with a shop owner who told us her life story and called us "her angels." Also in Sorrento, we remember four generations of gelato makers, learning about their religious faith, the loss of a child, and the joys of being a
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Laura & Luca's Shop
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Like Gino said, we experienced a most holy journey. It was one we took slowly with elevated senses. We touched the core of the people and their land. We were embedded with them, their families and their stories. Now, each of those treasured moments and the people who brought them to life are forever etched in our hearts. On Valentine's Day we especially remember them.
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you've been given a limited amount of it. She said each of us had been
given a secret number when we departed the spirit world. It was the
number of years we have on earth and it related to our destiny and our
mission. She said use the time wisely and with purpose. So I asked her "How do we measure our time left and how do we accomplish our mission?"
year left in her life. When she was younger, the jar was practically
full but in the latter part of her seventh decade, there were only 15
marbles in the jar. Rolling them into her hands the visual made a
lasting impression. She explained that when she was a young girl in
South America her grandmother taught her the magic and medicine of the
earth and how to relate to all species. Her grandmother also taught her
about the finite number of years given to each person on earth.
deeply reflect on the year just past. What had she done with the year?
How did she spend her time? Was it a year making the world a better
place? Or was it squandered? She said at first the bag appeared filled
with endless stones. But over time, as the stones began to diminish she
realized the value of time and how it was being spent.
The endless continuity of life became clear as a lineage expanding across four generations unfolded
life here on earth. We believe its separate because it cannot be
seen. It cannot be seen because the vibrations of those on earth are
denser by nature than the vibrations of the spirit realms. The fact is,
the soul does not "go anywhere after death" but rather occupies all
space. It retains memories, knowledge, impressions, thoughts and
vibrations from its life on earth and holds that together in ethereal
energy packets. Those packets are picked up and used by both the
incoming incarnating souls and the outgoing souls leaving incarnation.
deposited for the new comers (or returning souls for the
reincarnationists) which then further alters the family destiny and
forms new purposes.
Antigua always called it "home." She learned to body-surf as a child
at the sometimes treacherous Half Moon Bay, her favorite place on the
island. It was also the place the family always met on Sundays. During
the reunion it was one of the spots selected for a day-long picnic
and swim. I watched my seventy-six year old aunt, the youngest of the
eight girls, go out to the towering waves and body surf with her nephews
"one last time." Though tossed around by the pounding surf, she gamely
took the swells for about twenty minutes. She said it was like surfing
with her sisters in the 1940's and 50's.
about their deceased parent and suddenly note that the clock face said 3:33 or 12:12.
ended.
non-existent.
But in 4th Dimensional consciousness, there's a noticeable change. What we think about the universe and our relation to it is much more heart-centered.